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What Foods To Start With For Baby Led Weaning
what baby food should I serve first?
One wonderful thing about baby led weaning is that you really have so much room to have fun, experiment, explore and enjoy all sorts of foods early on. With baby led weaning, meals are about the experience of eating (together), rather than the task of eating/feeding.
That said, there are a few things to know to be as safe as possible:
1. Avoid choking hazards
2. Prepare properly for introducing allergens, especially if you have a family history of allergies OR your baby has eczema. In this case, your baby may be predisposed for having a food allergy. Consult your pediatrician about allergens (and starting solids in general).
“In a step forward in food allergy prevention, the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) updated its Dietary Guidelines to include early introduction of food allergens to infants and young children. It’s the first time the USDA addressed food allergies in its dietary guidelines.
The USDA guidelines recommend parents introduce food allergens to a child in the first year of life when other complementary foods are introduced in the diet. Introducing early and often, can help prevent the development of food allergies. “There is no evidence that delaying introduction of allergenic foods, beyond when other complementary foods are introduced, helps to prevent food allergy,” the USDA guidelines say.- Allergy & Asthma Network
3. Iron deficiency is a concern and common in babies, therefore the American Academy of Pediatrics highly encourages focusing on iron-rich or iron-fortified foods when starting solids, like:
- Beef
- Pork
- Dark turkey
- Winter squash
- Sweet potatoes
- Egg yolks
- Beans
- Lentils
- Oatmeal
- Tuna
- Kale
- Spinach
- Broccoli
- Fortified products like breakfast cereals with 100% of the daily value needed, white beans, soybeans, tofu
Starting with one of these foods is a great idea! Or, you can start with banana or avocado, if that what makes you most comfortable. Then, as your baby gets more practice in with grabbing, chewing and swallowing, you can make it a point to incorporate these iron-rich foods often.
Note on safety: I always recommend that new parents take a pediatric CPR class or at least get informed about what they can do to help their baby in case choking does happen. It’s really the safest choice, as babies up to 5 years old are at high risk for choking, even on toy parts etc. *Note: baby led weaning studies have shown that this feeding method does NOT pose more of a choking risk than parent-led spoon feeding does, if done safely (avoiding choking hazards, monitoring baby when eating etc).
What are the first foods for baby led weaning?
Here is a baby led weaning food chart you can save or print. This is a great starter list of foods that also includes the iron-rich foods mentioned above. All of these are great baby led weaning foods 6 months and beyond!
How to prepare foods for baby led weaning?
- Always ensure that fresh fruit is very ripe/very soft so your baby can easily gum at or chew up and swallow safely. Gums are great for mashing soft foods, so baby doesn’t need to have teeth to start.
- For all fruit, a good rule of thumb is to have everything be as soft as a banana.
- For cooked foods, use the same rule – as soft as a banana. Steam, sautee, roast, however you prefer to prepare it.
- How often to serve a new food: the most recent recommendation is one food per day OR per every few days, depending on your comfort level and baby’s abilities. As you see them handle a food well, and as you start to feel more comfortable and confident, you can begin to add another or switch to another.
- Keep salt and sodium-dense products to a minimum, as your baby’s kidneys aren’t quite developed enough to process it properly. The same goes for spicy seasonings – avoid those until baby is more accustom to flavors, and you can decipher what they are able to tolerate.
- Strongly consider taking an infant CPR class. Although studies have found that baby led weaning does not pose a greater choking risk than feeding pureed food does, the likelihood that you have choking fears is high. And, the reality is, choking can be a risk up until age 5-6 years old, so if you actually know what to do in case of a choking emergency, you are likely to feel far more at ease when serving foods.
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- Berries can be cut in half and/or squished.
- Things like pasta, ground beef and peas can be placed in front of them a few at a time, so that baby doesn’t use their palmar grasp and overload their mouth with too much food. As I mentioned, their gag reflex is strong at 6 months and will help protect them from choking, by pushing the food forward and out. Gagging can also occur as they are getting used to so much newness – texture, flavor and swallowing pieces of food versus just milk.
- Cottage cheese can be strained and then served, this way they can pick at the curds easier and with less mess.
- Yogurt and oatmeal can be pre-scooped onto a baby-appropriate spoon for them, then either hand the spoon to them or lay it on their tray for them to grab. If you’re looking for the best spoon, these utensils are the easiest ones for 6-9 month olds to actually use correctly.
- Rice can be gently pressed onto a chunk of avocado or sprinkled into scrambled eggs for a less messy meal.
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Baby led weaning feeding schedule
Many moms wonder when to feed their baby once they start solids. You can opt to feed solids before or after their milk, either is fine. Timing their meal around when they currently feed for milk will be the easiest way for you to add this into your existing routine.
For a happy and eager-to-eat baby, let them show you hunger cues before serving them solids. Instead of sticking to any rigid schedule, if you notice hunger cues, that means you have a hungry baby and are less likely to see them refuse or futz around with food you give them (more on what to expect from your baby when they start solids below).
Know that as your baby ages from 6-12months old, they’ll be developing rapidly, so when and how much they eat can fluctuate day to day and month to month.
You can see and save the feeding schedule example below for how many solids feeds babies typically have by age.
what to expect with baby led weaning
Some babies really lean into the learning side of starting solids (they feel, play, lick, rather than just eat them – and that’s completely normal, too). This can leave moms feeling like they are doing something wrong or that their baby can’t do baby led weaning. It’s not true! I want you to know that not all babies just dive into eating. This article goes over 7 other common things babies do when starting solids with baby led weaning (besides eat them!)
If you notice your baby is hesitant to eat and exploring foods more as they do toys, one of the best things you can do is to tweak how you present the food (while still following the necessary safe softness guidelines – soft as a ripe banana is an easy way to remember it) and see if they take to foods more when they are in a specific shape or presentation.
Remember, your baby is just starting to learn how to control their hands and arms – bringing foods to their mouth. Another thing they are learning is how much to put into their mouth. Be sure to keep them as safe as possible by ALWAYS sitting with them to monitor while eating, and serving safe sizes, softness and amounts of foods. Sprinkle more as needed until they have complete control of gripping foods and putting a manageable amount in their mouth.
Check out these helpful starting solids tool
additional feeding tips
Keep in mind at this stage, they might not know what to do with foods yet. Show them what to do by doing yourself, expose them to a variety of colors, shapes and flavors, and make sure they are hungry when you sit down to serve them foods.
That’s it!? One little nibble?! One thing babies do when just starting solids is lick or chew a little tiny bite and that is all. The rest is left on their tray. Normal! Don’t decide just yet if they like or don’t like that food. It’s more about their eating skills and overall eating experience at this point than it is about the foods themselves.
With starting solids, there is so much newness for your baby – self feeding is way different than drinking form a boob or a bottle. All the colors, textures, smells – there is a lot to take in and a lot for them to actively do, unlike when they were just drinking milk.
Don’t stress if your baby is slow to chow. Keep serving new and different things, presenting them in different ways and let your baby get practice in. Try a super soft zucchini stick one day, zoodles another day and garlic smashed zucchini on a spoon another day. Which do they go for more?
Another thing to keep in mind is chewing comfort and teething – certain foods may be uncomfortable for them to chew (ground beef vs a smooth banana) not in a bad way, just different.
As for teething, some babies will eat less when sick and/or teething. So, keeping a helicopter view of what they eat over the course of 3-4 days will keep you from stressing over things if they don’t eat much during one meal.
To help you understand what is NORMAL and COMMON when it comes to starting solids (the stage that I like to actually call ‘learning solids’) you can see this (very reassuring) article: Baby Not Eating Much Solids? 7 Common Things Babies Do With Solids (Besides Eat Them!)
Check out these starting solids with blw books:*
Note: ALWAYS consult your pediatrician for professional guidance on starting solids. There is a lot of educational information, like mine here, on the internet that is never to replace medical advice from a medical professional.
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